The end of the year is also a time for making conclusions and remembering the beginnings. Therefore, I cannot resist not telling you about how the story of Awakening Her has started. Please, forgive me for being sentimental at some points, but that is just the way it is with us women.
Once upon a time I was sitting at a beach bar in the peak of the summer heat. The sun was melting the ice cream in front of my nose and the sea was gently caressing the white hot rocks. A good friend of mine was telling me about an amusing theory of why men can’t understand women and women can’t explain to men what they want. Shortly after that entertaining talk, I immediately began to feel extremely inspired to write a book for men. From day one, I felt powerful will and motivation to kindly explain the real essence of her expectations to men. And I wanted to do this gently and with love, because I realised that nowadays, living with a modern woman in our society is anything but simple. Besides that, I have experienced men’s sincere wish to fulfil women’s expectations quite a few times. In fact, women in relationship are usually not able to explain to men what they really want, even if they would like to, because they often don’t know what they want.
For me, the process of writing this book was like walking along an unknown path and confronting life lessons. Every chapter was unique, yet all chapters somehow came back to the same basics. These basics are by definition so simple that one can take them for granted. And taking things, such as understanding, compassion and gratitude, for granted brings a lot of clashing into a relationship. Finding your way back, on the other hand, is very challenging; nobody taught us how. But it is not impossible. After all, if we take away all the unnecessary clutter, we realise that we already have everything we need to live and love unconditionally.
What I wanted to explain above is that this story began very amusingly, continued somewhat seriously, became very serious and deep and, with some more amusing parts from everyday life, ended up as a loving work aimed to encourage men to love in their authentic way in order to awake femininity in women worldwide.
It’s time for us all to return to the basics and awake the naturally given love that lays deep inside of us.
By the way, I have just returned from a working meeting with my precious translator of the book and I am excited to inform you that I will be able to provide you with a content structure of the book and first “tastings” from the chapters before the beginning of the New Year.
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